is temporary care for children who have the ultimate goal of returning home to their birth parents or other relatives. Foster parents play a vital role in understanding the needs of the children during these difficult times, and their help, intervention, and nurturing can make all the difference to a child in need.
Wake County foster parents represent all walks of life and all races, economic backgrounds and religions. Foster parents need to be caring individuals who understand the special needs of children who have been separated from their families. You do need to have extra time and extra patience to help a child adjust to your home and to the changes he or she is experiencing.
Prospective foster parents need to attend a preparation group. This training is designed to help you learn more about foster care and the needs of the children. This information will help you decide whether or not you are ready to make the commitment to be a foster parent. If you are married, both husband and wife must attend the group. The meetings are generally held one night a week for ten consecutive weeks (from 6:00 to 9:00 p.m.). Saturday classes may also be scheduled.
2013 Foster Care/Adoption
Information Meeting Schedule
Meetings are always held from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m.
For updates, please call the 919-212-7474.
Steps to become a Foster Parent
The following are what you can expect during your path to becoming a foster parent. Please keep in mind that there is no way to guarantee a family will be approved to be foster parents. Because the stakes are so high for the children we place, it is important for you and staff to have any concerns about application resolved before approval can be made.
First Step: The Information Meeting
This informal meeting is designed to present information about foster care in Wake County. At this meeting, we discuss the definitions of foster care and adoption and talk about the specific needs of the children in our community. There will be an opportunity for questions and answers, as well. By the end of this meeting, you should have a pretty good idea of whether you want to continue with the process in order to learn more about becoming a foster parent.
Prospective foster parents should plan to attend one of 11 Foster Care/Adoption Information meetings held every month. These informative meetings are usually held the last Tuesday of each month (excluding December) from 7 to 9 p.m.
Due to the sensitive content discussed during the Information Meeting we ask that you please not bring children to the meeting.
Second Step: The Foster Parent Information Form
You need to complete this form so that we will have some basic understanding of how best to work with you. You will be given this form at the information meeting. There are some regulations in North Carolina about foster care. The information you give us on this form helps to indicate whether there are any regulations that need to be discussed further.
Third Step: Preparation Groups Training (MAPP)
There are 10 meetings after the Information Meeting. These meetings are designed to give you an opportunity to make a well-informed decision about participating in our program. The meetings are relaxed (no tests!) and we discuss in-depth information which should help you in your role as a foster parent. You will also have an opportunity to meet with experienced foster and adoptive parents. The preparation group meetings are usually held once a week for a period of about two months. If there is a conflict with your work schedule, please talk to us beforehand.
Fourth Step: Individual Meetings
After the preparation group, a social worker will be assigned to help you with the rest of the process. You and that worker will get to know each other from individual meetings together in your home. We will also be meeting with your children and anyone else who is living with you.
Fifth Step: Making a Decision
Besides your social worker, other agency staff will be looking at your interest in foster care. This will include the Foster Family Resource Unit supervisor and other social workers who will make a decision about your application.
Sixth Step: Medical Examinations and Inspections
After successfully completing step 5, foster parent applicants need to schedule and complete the following:
Medical examination for every member of your household; and,
Inspection by the Fire Department (no cost)
Many applicants tell us they worry about the inspections. No one expects your house to be perfect and most homes pass these inspections without much preparation. The inspector will be looking for conditions that might be dangerous. You will have an opportunity to correct any problems.
Final Step: Approval
The social worker will write an assessment (including information about your family's strengths and needs, background information, etc.). After your review, it is sent to the state office for approval. The state office will then review the information; when the application is approved, a license is issued. Children can be placed with your family after this license has been issued.
Please keep in mind that there is no way to guarantee a family will be approved to be foster parents. Because the stakes are so high for the children we place, it is important for you and staff to have any concerns about application resolved before approval can be made. This is true throughout the application process and all the steps listed above.